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How “The Art of War” helped me find my way into my femininity.

In my last article, I wrote that the concepts of feminine & masculine energy can be hard to grasp, because they are meant to be used in concert, rather than individually.⁣⁣So how to use them when we are a woman?⁣⁣Femininity will manifest itself differently for each woman and so, the answer is only inside of …

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How does it feel to be in our femininity ?

How does it feel to be in our femininity?⁣⁣⁣⁣For me, there is nothing more beautiful than to witness a woman blossoming into her femininity.⁣⁣⁣⁣Think about an opening of a rose bud. If you’ve been through this transformation, you may have had people telling you how “you’ve changed”.⁣⁣⁣⁣And this is true;⁣⁣⁣⁣ the way you look, talk,⁣⁣ …

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You can’t have high standards with some people and allow others to disrespect you

You can’t have high standards with some people and allow others to disrespect you.  Intellectually, this principle may sound obvious. For me at least, it was…until the time came for me to put it into practice.  What was even more surprising for me, is how this principle was going to lead me to a question that …

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How can growing up in a dysfunctional family impact your way of relating to men? (part 2)

Only when we see our parents for who they really are, can our illusions of men begin to shatter,  Only by grieving the parent(s) that we’ve never had, can our emotional rolling coaster finally come to an end, Only by accepting men for who they really are, can we become truly free. In the first …

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How can growing up in a dysfunctional family impact your way of relating to men ? (Part 1)

“The great teachers understand that where we come from affects where we go and that what sits unresolved in our past influences our present. They know that our parents are important, regardless of whether they are good at parenting or not. There is no way around it. The family story is our story. Like it …

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Narcissists are not as powerful as we make them out to be

For the sake of simplicity, I will refer to the narcissist as ‘he’ but this article is not gender based. Narcissists do use different tactics depending on their gender, but I won’t go into details about it in this article. Two persons who are dealing with the exact same narcissist will experience their relationship with …